DISAPPOINTED: We almost had him home. He called over the weekend, while we were at a competition in Park City. He was scared, lonely and wanted to come home. We arranged a time to pick him up, only to find out....
ANGRY: he was with his friends and decided to still live with them.
FLABBERGASTED: he later shares with us how his friends are concerned about some of the kids he has been hanging around, his friends don't approve of his sluffing and were mad when he didn't call them over the weekend! (um, isn't that my job!!! It's these current friends that are the root of so many of his problems.)
SAD: We had parent teacher conference and he is not staying committed to his Senior year and throwing away a 3.0 gpa and baseball.
TEARFUL: Taylor's favorite teacher and I cried together...
PUZZLED: Conversation during PTC with Tanner...
Teacher: "Tanner I feel you don't like me and the way I teach. Can you please tell me why?"
Tanner: "That is correct, I don't like you. You spend time teaching the problem on the white board and I stay focused to understand your lack of teaching. After you are done explaining you often go back and tell us you taught us the incorrect way. It is very frustrating!"
Me: (My jaw is on the floor!)
Teacher: "Mrs. King, Tanner is correct. I often need to correct myself."
Me: (My jaw is still on the floor!)
*At the quarter he is switching teachers...
AMAZED: Over the weekend Jordan placed 1st in short and long program at a competition in Park City. She received her highest points.
WORRIED: Still having back pain from her laybacks...
EXCITED: We leave next week for Regionals in San Jose and spend the week with my mom.
LOL: Cordero doesn't like to wash the dishes. The family is teaching him how to clean up after a meal.
RELIEVED: He has battled a nasty cold and it's finally getting better.
LOVE: Just happy to end the day in his arms and having him take Tanner to seminary in the morning!!!
5 comments:
Wow, I was really looking foward to teenage years. I have absolutly no idea what I am getting into do I :) Good luck with it all.
Tiff,
Love the description of emotions you are going through. I see very small glimpses of it headed my way...
Like Ellie listing off all the mom's she preferred before me...the list was long. She thought it was funny- but I could see that she is starting to see a world bigger than our home and family. A small step I'm sure, but significant to me.
I am glad I have you as a mentor. You are a terrific mom- with terrific kids!
xo,
C
This helps me to keep the challenges we have now in perspective- little kids, little problems- big kids, big problems! I echo Natasha...I have no idea what I'm getting into. Thankfully I have a few more years to try and work up to it! If it's worth anything to you, at least your past young women can learn from your experiences! PS- I'll email you more Maggie details as soon as I know them!
Wow, you were just online posting the Cardinals post. I'm not into Baseball so I skipped over it to comment on this one! So I've missed a huge chunk of your life! I really hope Taylor gets a grip on life and realizes family is the only thing that will last the test of time. Friends always dissapear, no matter what. And if they reapear then they will have changed. Anyway, love you lots!
You are awesome Tiffany!
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